Frequently Asked Questions

Below you'll find answers to common questions that potential mentors often have. These FAQs will help you understand the qualities of a good mentor, how to get started, and what to expect from the mentoring experience.

What is mentoring?

In his book, Life Giving Mentors (Growing Leaders, 2009), Tim Elmore defines mentoring as “… a relational experience through which one empowers another…”. Mentors are “… people growers” who help people “… close the gap between potential and performance”.

University of Cincinnati professor Evan Griffin characterizes mentoring as “friendship with a vision”. That is – a mentor provides both ongoing presence in a young person’s life (as would a friend), and encouragement to dream big, and do and become their best.

In short, a mentor is a confidante who makes a simple but powerful commitment to be there in a young person’s life. And - over time - a mentor can be that difference maker who (in concert with others in a young person’s evolving network) encourages bold aspirations, empowers capacity to navigate obstacles, and guides young people towards their highest potentials.

Why does mentoring matter?

Research convincingly shows that mentoring has positive impacts on relationship building, self-confidence, trust in others, well being, academic performance and so much more. Young people with mentors in their lives are more likely to avoid pitfalls such as drugs, alcohol, bullying, violent behavior and more.

Yet – sadly – most young people do not have a formal mentor in their lives. Let’s be the change. Let’s transform the Cincy region landscape with and for our young people!

Would you like to know more? This link will lead you to a robust – yet short – collection of articles that highlight the power and impact of mentoring.

How about me? Can I be a mentor?

Absolutely! Mentoring, quite simply, activates core capacities that we already have - the capacity to care and be present for others in our communities, to help each other navigate day to day challenges, and to affirm that we all matter and have boundless potentials.

So, have no doubts. You have what it takes to be a difference maker in a young person’s life. And the We Mentor Cincy partner with whom you affiliate will provide ample guidance and support. You just need to take the leap, commit, and show up!

More Frequently Asked Questions

  • To get started as a mentor, you can explore the different organizations on our website and see what fits best for you. Once you've identified a potential organization, reach out to them directly or visit their website for more information on their mentorship programs. They can provide specific details on how to apply, any training or qualifications required, and what to expect as a mentor in their program.

  • Good mentors possess qualities such as empathy, active listening skills, patience, a willingness to share knowledge, respect for confidentiality, and a genuine interest in helping others succeed. These traits are more important than specific professional achievements or seniority.

  • While expertise in your field is valuable, mentoring is also about sharing experiences, offering guidance, and providing support. You don't need to be the ultimate expert; your willingness to listen and provide perspective can make a significant impact.

  • Consider your life experiences, career journey, challenges overcome, and lessons learned. These experiences, no matter how modest they may seem, can provide valuable insights and guidance to someone else navigating similar paths.

  • Reflect on your own experiences and what you've learned along your journey. Consider attending workshops or reading resources on effective mentoring practices. Being open to learning and improving your mentoring skills is key to becoming a successful mentor.

  • Yes, mentoring is not always about technical expertise. Your life experiences, leadership skills, and personal insights can be valuable in mentoring others in various aspects of personal and professional development.tion

  • It's natural to have concerns about offering guidance. Remember that mentoring is about sharing perspectives and experiences rather than providing definitive answers. Encourage your mentee to explore options and make informed decisions based on the advice and insights you provide.

  • Mentoring can be personally rewarding, offering opportunities for personal growth, enhanced leadership skills, a sense of fulfillment from helping others, and expanding your professional network. It's a chance to make a meaningful impact in someone else's life.

Still have questions? Reach out to the We Mentor Cincy team.